https://blogs.mercola.com:443/sites/vitalvotes/archive/2020/01/19/kind-acts-kill-pain.aspx&ldquo;Kill them with kindness,&rdquo; as the old saying goes, but now scientists have proof that you can actually kill pain with kindness. Peking University scientists in Beijing found kind acts to be a painkiller, according to a report on Yahoo NewsenCommunityServer 2008.5 SP1 (Debug Build: 31106.3070)https://blogs.mercola.com:443/sites/vitalvotes/archive/2020/01/19/kind-acts-kill-pain.aspx?ShowAllComments=True#9782781/19/2020 10:02:12 AM24451277-a5aa-4add-96dc-64081bfd86fa:978278docww<p>I would add: &nbsp;&quot;Always tell the truth in a respectful manner&quot;.</p> https://blogs.mercola.com:443/sites/vitalvotes/archive/2020/01/19/kind-acts-kill-pain.aspx?ShowAllComments=True#9782411/19/2020 1:08:45 AM24451277-a5aa-4add-96dc-64081bfd86fa:978241Almond<p>I wonder if this is related to the release of endophorins, or other chemicals. &nbsp;It is difficult to know which comes first--the pain that makes people grouchy and mean or the bad attitude that increases pain. &nbsp;Maybe some of both. &nbsp;One thing I have observed is that being nasty to others rarely improves your own situation. &nbsp;However, it can be difficult to communicate this to people who are self-absorbed in their own problems of any kind.</p> <p>When I was young, I worked in a retirement home. &nbsp;I noticed that those who had worked hard for a living were often the kindest people of all. &nbsp;They were always self-effacing and undemanding asking that the best of everything be given to others first. &nbsp;The strange thing was that they got the most attention and best of everything. &nbsp;You cannot give without receiving.</p>