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Increase Your Happiness by Limiting Choices!

This headline certainly sounds paradoxical. But consider that, not so long ago, there was only one telephone company option, and the phone you rented from that company never broke.

All the choices available nowadays -- VoIP, cellular phones, cable phones and traditional land-line services -- offer more freedom than ever before, but may exact quite a cost on our collective psyches, says psychologist Barry Schwartz in the compelling video linked below.

Schwartz, the author of The Paradox of Choice, believes, rightly, that the "freedom of choice" afforded to us by all these options escalates our expectations, and therefore introduces indecision and unhappiness into the equation.

TED April 2007


Dr. Mercola's Comment:

A great example cited by Dr. Schwartz of how the dizzying array of choices can harm your health is, no doubt, a familiar one to most of you: The deluge of prescription drug ads aimed specifically at you that prompt you to call your doctors about this "latest and best" option, with no thought whatsoever about the consequences.

Of course, it is my hope that the information you receive on this site provides you a far higher level of skepticism to question their ads.

However, the article premise surrounds the question, "Is happiness in limited choices?" A simple confirmation of this principle can be attained by taking a stroll around your corner grocery store some day and counting the number of brands of cookies or salad dressings from which to choose. You'll be surprised.

In fact, Dr. Schwartz argues this explosion of choices may be a significant contributor to the explosion of depression and suicide throughout the world, because people living in the Western world typically have high expectations for a given experience, and usually find fault with themselves about the decisions they make.

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Posted On May 21, 2007
Success is getting what you want, happiness is wanting what you get!

 
Josh Rubin
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Posted On May 21, 2007
Keep you eye on the prize; not prizes.

Never seek what others have in envy, be happy for them, but be happier for yourself, that you have the personal integrity and acumen to know you are no better or worse for your own path.  

If you are not harming others or yourself, benefiting others and yourself, and most importantly remaining focused on that which is truly irreplaceable, your health and your happiness (and that of your family and friends - but in a not too preachy way); the rest is mere window dressing.

Besides, unless you are an ancient Egyptian Pharaoh, it is highly improbable you are not taking anything with you.


 
Russ Bianchi
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Posted On May 21, 2007
In the days of my youth I bought into the propaganda that having more was best: More and varied: frozen GOURMET dinners; lemonade packaged as a powder with no calories; the most expensive refrigerator--look how big and shiny. Now I am practically a Luddite and I am happiest with the belief that less is more. And that theory turned out to be true. When I buy simple food of the highest purity I can find and prepare it myself using the wisdom of the ages, it tastes sublime and it is exactly what my body needs. I used to have degenerative conditions on a small but growing scale, but that is all in the past too. I am alive and healthy as Mother Nature meant me to be. The simplest of gadgets keeps utility bills down and pin money up. I can actually save money too.
Hooray, I am free!

 
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Posted On May 21, 2007
Go Luddites!  (I am a bit of one myself and find less is more to be so
true the older I get.)

Love your blog ID-what a lovely thought.


saynotoquacks
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Posted On Jun 05, 2007
"Our lives are frittered away by detail....Simplify! Simplify!" -- Henry D. Thoreau

 
 
 
Posted On Jun 05, 2007
As a former British soldier i can testify that when all you have to worry about is getting enough to eat and drink and squeezing in enough sleep to be able to function and of course not getting killed or maimed, that life starts to be really simple and there is a great joy in the simple life. Some of the best times in my life were'nt sitting on a beach, but taking incoming small arms fire with my best buddies. Or just sitting in ambush on a jungle trail, priceless!!!

 
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Witch Doctor
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Posted On Jun 05, 2007
Thanks, Guy.  Happiness comes from productive work, and not from seeking it.  The real kind, that is.


Chrisso
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Posted On Jun 06, 2007
After we have taken care of our most basic needs, things after that become 'niceties'. 95% of all the things in the shops are unneccesary. I can only point out 10 things that I would buy in the average supermarket. I think that we have 'over-invented' ourselves! By trying to make life easier we make life more complicated. Were people 100 years ago thinking to themselves "oh my God my life is so complicated". You summed it up nicely -Free as a Bird-.

 
 
 
Posted On May 27, 2007
Taking away choices is authoritarian.  Choices are good, and more choices are better.  How one deals with choices is a personal matter.  Some like to do the research and make a decision, and others don't, and they can just go on someone's recommendation, use Consumer Reports or other such, or go with some tied-and-true product.  The best products tend to rise to the top, which is better than some totalitarian decision to limit choices.

 
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Cacao
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Posted On Jun 05, 2007

I like to keep most things in life simple, but I simply need choices.

There are so many excellent books to read, that can help me grow and expand my mind. I don’t want to be forced to read just a few good books!

The exchange student that I hosted from Russia was very unhappy with all the choices at the local high school she would be attending. She said in Russia they chose what she would study. She did not want the responsibility of choice.

Take away my choices and you take away my freedom! I do not want to be a mindless person that is only given a few choices!



Robin M.
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Posted On Jun 05, 2007
The real question should be whether the self limiting of choices increases happiness.  In my experience, it does.

I live in an area that is about 50 miles from a mall, fast food like McDonald's, or a super store like WalMart.  While at first I experienced a sense of deprevation and desperation, within a year that subsided, and I began experiencing increased satisfaction and happiness with what I have.  

I am always aware that if a want a plethora of choices, it is just an hour's drive away.  However, I now only "go to town" about every other month, get what I need and get the heck out.  All of the choices do not give me pleasure, rather, they cause me stress.

We used to have 85 satellite channels.  Now, we choose to just get the five network channels and LinkTV.

The conclusion that I have drawn from this experience is that we are given the illusion of many choices (like lots of the same product manufactured by the same few companies, marketed with different labels, or the same shows and news on over and over on cable television) but we really are extremely limited in our actual options.

The illusion of choice is the tool of an authoritarian system that placates the masses. 

   


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Posted On Jun 05, 2007
Robin, well said.  Your post really made me stop and think.



Bridestein
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Posted On Jun 05, 2007
Robin M. - just wanted to say "hi neighbor!". I'm down here in So Hum, also fifty miles from anywhere and lovin' it.
You're right, less choices are better, like 'should I sit on the porch in the sun or walk down to the river?'.  ^_^



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Posted On Oct 31, 2007
You're right -- taking away choices is authoritarian.  But that's exactly what Dr. Schwartz is proposing if you watch the video link.  He says we need to have wealth redistribution to limit choices for some and increase choices for others.  He is simply using this idea of limiting choices to promote his ideas of authoritarian control.

Of course, I'd like to ask Dr. Schwartz who gets to decide how to re-distribute the bounty.  Most likely he expects it to be distributed according to his ideals. 

Tyranny always starts with some well-meaning person who declares that they know what's best for you. 

 
 
 
 
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